One Afternoon, you are
left alone with your thoughts and you find out that, your amazing, caring,
attentive, loving, sweet partner has suddenly turn to a stranger over time. So
much that you can’t but wonder if he is the same person or not.
Yes! He is the same
person, he was not switched for another, the changes you noticed is pointing to
the fact that he is no longer interested
in you. He must have probably found solace somewhere else.
Here are the changes to
look out for to ascertain your doubts:
1.
He Stops calling you the Pet Names He gave you
From the time you said
yes to him, and your relationship began, that was the last time you heard him
call your name but just recently you heard him call you by your first name.
What does this tell
you?He is no longer interested in you
or he is losing interest by the day.
2.
He Constantly Blames the Time and Claims Too Busy
Before now, he gives
you all his time, attends to your calls and even sends you a lot of romantic
text messages but not anymore.
Your partner suddenly
doesn’t have the luxury of time to call you nor pick up your calls. His excuses
are mostly flimsy and he blames it all on time always. This is telling you he is no longer interested in you.
A man who loves you
will create time for you both regardless of the tight schedule he has.
3.
He engages you in a Casual Conversation mostly not Romantic and usually short
Apart from claiming too
busy to reach out to you, one of the ways to know he is no longer interested in you are that, whenever you both are
conversing, he keeps the conversation casual and mostly not romantic. Yes! As
if he is just speaking to a friend.
The conversation are
mostly kept brief and precise, no much introduction or familiarity.
4.
He is no Longer Open
Relationships are all
about balancing the emotional, financial, material, medical well-being of the
two partners.
Then, the moment he no
longer wants to share anything serious about himself to you, nor want to know
details about you anymore, shows you that your partner is no longer interested in you.
Most of it all, on few
times that he talks to you; he gives you a short notice about his plans and
life activities because you are no longer relevant to his life.
5.
He stops Showing Appreciation
All the little things
that you do for him before now, that matters so much and is a big deal to him.
Those things are no longer important the moment he is no longer interested in you.
He doesn’t appreciate
it when you buy him gifts, package a lunch box for him or even do his laundry.
6.
He Talks only About Sex
Since the love binding
the two of you from his end has completely faded out or is fading out, the only
thing he has left for you is Lust.
He only sees you now as
a sex partner or a bed mate. Nothing more! He simply got tired of you and knows
when you get tired of been laid with always, you will walk away.
Give
Away
It
is mostly a hard decision to call it quit with a man you still much in love
with. Yet, it is better to walk away, the moment you keep noticing all this
earlier discussed signs. Sure! You stand a chance to meet a better person.
